Stephen's heart in the right place. He truly cares about his girlfriend, but she always seems to disappoint. As hard as Stephen tries to express his deep feelings and love for his girlfriend to her, his efforts often fall short.
It is often disappointed and frustrated. Stephen is worried that his girlfriend would break up with him and find someone who can love the way she wants to be loved.
He confides a friend, "I do not know how to love her !"
If you have a love affair or marriage, and you feel like your trying to show his love for his wife does not get in the way they were intended, you're not alone.
Many people find it difficult to love their wives the way they want to be loved. Maybe you'll find yourself racking your brain in search of a better way to express your love for a special woman in your life.
When you have an idea, on May feel like a threat to actually act on it. What if she does not like and spent all the time and money to make that happen? What if I end up looking like a fool?
Even if you are able to come up with ideas on how you can show your wife how much you adore it, questions like these can be prevented actually taking steps to carry out their plan.
The bottom line here is this: When you do not regularly show his love for his wife, she has to guess how you feel. Even if you told her you love her and that is important to you, she probably wants to hear more than once or twice, and for special occasions!
Expressing love and respect for one another is an essential building block for a healthy romantic relationship or marriage.
Expressing love and respect for one another is an essential building block for a healthy romantic relationship or marriage.
...# 1: Ask
!This May seem too obvious, but I must remind you of it anyway. If you feel clueless about how a woman wants to be loved, to be ready to ask her.
Even if it's the type of person who likes surprises, it is likely that she also likes surprises are better than her.
Find the courage to ask your question a woman like this ...
"What words, acts, gestures or gifts will help you to feel special and loved ?"
Invite her to list off all sorts of things - there is no limit allowed. Encourage her to go deep into this question.
Maybe she would like to take more responsibility for the home or child care, for example. Perhaps I wish to be treated to a sensual spa night at home with you giving a massage. Or it could be that she'd just to hear her say that it is more beautiful (without asking ).
# 2: Really listen and follow.
When a woman is giving you this information, focus and listen. If you are not sure what it says, is to ask: "Please tell me more ."
It can ask the same question about how you want to be loved. If so, be open, honest and specific. Give her the advantage of "inside information", as you just received.
is now time for you to follow through.
I do not recommend that you force yourself to say or do something that does not come from the heart. Let your love for her to be your motivation ... Even if this is something new and a little uncomfortable for you.
If you're unaccustomed to doing whatever it is you chose her request list, you may set reminders for yourself. You can even use a cell phone or e-mail calendar to help with this.
Even if your budget and time are tight, you can still clearly express to his wife that he loved and kept from you. The real words and gestures can meaningfully be very strong.
When you asked your wife to tell you how she wants to be loved is probably felt special. You ask her to show you really care. Further, as you actually do some (or all) of these things, you show your love even further.
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